Ember Associates Vietnam
One-day workshop For leadership teams Asia · Europe

Most decisions are made by gut. Most of the time, that's the problem.

Your team makes decisions all day. Some of them matter. Most of the time, nobody can tell you which was which. DecisionLab is a radically different way to make decisions, taught at a real poker table with real money on the line.

Refined over
15 years
Built and rebuilt across hundreds of rooms until every minute earned its place.
Tested on
1,000+ leaders
Senior teams across Asia and Europe. The patterns repeat. The blind spots are universal.
Teaches
A skill no MBA covers
How to actually decide. Not the theory. The muscle.
— 01

The uncomfortable idea.

"The way most of us make important calls is indistinguishable from the way we make trivial ones. Same gut. Same shortcuts. Whether we're picking lunch or picking a hire."
We confuse speed with skill
Senior leaders rarely fail at decisions because they don't think hard. They fail because they use the same instinct on a strategic call that they used on lunch — and the room rewards confidence, not clarity.
We can't see our own patterns
A "gut call" usually turns out to be a pattern someone has been repeating for years. You can't notice it from the inside. You need a setting where the pattern shows up, gets named, and stops being invisible.
Knowing isn't the work
Reading about cognitive bias is not the same as catching yourself in the middle of one. DecisionLab puts you in the chair, with money on the table, where the muscle gets built.
— 02

So we put your team at a real poker table.

Real cards. Real chips. Real money. The game runs all day. We stop it at the moments that teach.

Morning
Sit down. Play.
No theory yet. No frameworks. Just the table, the chips, and the patterns of how this group actually decides under pressure. The game is the diagnostic.
Afternoon
Apply, with the stakes still real.
Now they have the language. The frameworks. The naming of their own patterns. The same game, played differently. Same people, deciding differently. The contrast is the lesson.
Close
A conversation they're still having three months later.
Participants leave with a framework, a shared vocabulary, and a way of seeing each other's thinking that doesn't go away on Monday. Decision-making becomes something this team talks about, not just does.
— 03

Six mini-talks. Woven into the gameplay.

Each talk lands in the middle of the game, attached to a moment that just happened. Theory tied to evidence the room created itself. Click any card to expand.

Two systems run inside every decision. One is fast, intuitive, pattern-matching, evolved for speed. The other is slow, effortful, analytical, evolved for accuracy. Both are necessary. Both can fail you.

The mistake leaders make is not picking the wrong one. The mistake is not noticing which one is running. We treat the fast system's outputs as if they came from the slow one — and we trust ourselves accordingly.

"You don't decide whether to use system 1 or system 2. You decide whether you noticed which one just decided for you."

The amateur plays every hand. The professional folds most of them, then plays the right ones with conviction. Business decisions follow the same rule. Most leaders are too busy and not selective enough.

Selective aggression is choosing fewer fights and committing harder when you do. It's the opposite of the always-on, always-deciding posture most leadership cultures reward.

The literature names 188 cognitive biases. Most workshops try to cover all of them. We don't. We let the table show the room which biases are alive in this group, then name those.

This is where Emotional Spring Cleaning enters — the deliberate practice of surfacing what fear, ego, or attachment is shaping the call before you make it. Not eliminating emotion. Naming it, so it stops driving from the back seat.

"The bias you can't name is the one running the table."

A great decision can produce a terrible outcome. A terrible decision can produce a great outcome. Both happen all the time. Most leaders judge their decisions by the outcomes — and learn the wrong lessons for years.

Growth mindset in this context isn't a slogan. It's the discipline of separating decision quality from outcome quality, and being willing to be wrong about the second without being wrong about the first.

GIVE is the spine of the workshop's analytical work. Goals — what does winning actually look like. Importance — distribute 100 points across the things that matter. Viable options — what's actually on the table, including the ones nobody is naming. Expected value — the math the brain refuses to do for itself.

Most decision frameworks are too complex to use under pressure. GIVE is short enough to remember, structured enough to bite, and rigorous enough that the answer it produces is hard to dismiss.

"You don't need to remember the math. You need to remember to do it."

The poker table is a closed system: every decision changes the next hand, the chip stacks, the read on the room. Business is the same, only slower and harder to see. Decisions create the conditions for the decisions that follow.

Systems thinking, in DecisionLab, is the practice of asking what your call is going to do to the board — not just whether it wins this hand.

— 04

Participants leave with two things.

One they can use Monday morning. One they keep using for months.

FROM THE ROOM
A framework. A shared vocabulary.
A decision-making language this team didn't have when it walked in. They name biases out loud. They fold faster. They stop relitigating calls that have already been made — and they make the hard ones with structure instead of stamina.
  • The GIVE framework, internalized through use, not slides
  • Six named patterns the room recognized in itself
  • A vocabulary for challenging each other's thinking without making it personal
  • A conversation they're still having three months later
FROM THE WORKSHOP, INTO THEIR POCKET
Tér. Clarity on demand.
An app built on the same principles, available before the next big call. Tér is the integration layer — it surfaces the patterns in real decisions, walks the user through GIVE without ever naming it, and keeps the muscle warm long after Monday morning.
  • Two months of full Tér access included with the workshop
  • Decision support before the call, in their own words
  • The workshop's frameworks made invisible — no remembering required
  • Available on iOS, Android, and web

"So the learning doesn't end Monday morning. It starts there."

— 05

Built by someone who has watched it work.

Zsolt Tököli, facilitator and creator of DecisionLab
FACILITATOR · CREATOR
Zsolt Tököli
Executive coach and corporate trainer. Based in Ho Chi Minh City. Working across Asia and Europe.
Experience
30 yrs
Leaders trained
1,000+
Continents
2

Over fifteen years and a thousand-plus leaders across Asia and Europe, Zsolt has honed DecisionLab into the workshop that teaches executives a skill no MBA covers: how to decide.

He brings nearly three decades of work in cognitive-developmental coaching — the school of thought that argues most adult capability problems are not skills problems, they're seeing problems. You can't act on a pattern you can't see. The workshop, and Tér, are both built on that conviction.

DecisionLab isn't a product Zsolt sells. It's the workshop he keeps refining, one room at a time, because the patterns it surfaces are too important to leave to a deck.

Bring DecisionLab to your team

A radically different way to make decisions.

One day, in your city or ours. Eight to sixteen senior decision-makers around a real poker table. Two months of Tér included for every participant.

Format
One full day · in person
Group size
8–16 participants
Languages
English · Hungarian
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